How to have a fun, safe and sexy Valentines Day

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Lets talk about sex. Yes, you read that right.

We all know Valentines Day will be a special time for you and your partner. Its a night to connect, unwind and get a little frisky. It’s absolutely nothing to be shy about.

As a matter of fact, it can really help to get everything out in the open. The more we talk about what we do in the bedroom, the more enjoyable it can be for everyone. There are a lot of different ways that partners can improve their time together and become even closer than before.

But it’s also important to stay safe while having fun. The truth is, you don’t need to swap out pleasure for protection. And that’s good news, because they both help to enhance the experience.

If youre looking to get closer with your partner this Valentines Day and lets face it, who isnt here are a few ideas to get you started. The rest is up to you.

1. Upgrading you repertoire

Experimenting is important.

As you probably know, there are a million ways to make love. You and your partner have gotten into a pretty good rhythm, and you know exactly what you’re doing. That’s great! But it can still be good to spice things up.

And maybe that’s what you and your partner are used to. If you’re both so experienced that you could get busy blindfolded and hey, that might even be your thing find something neither of you have done before.

Make sure you find something you’re both really into and give it a try. You can even think of interesting positions you saw in a movie or magazine and see if they work for you. Who knows, you may just find your new favorite moves.

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2. Sharing those kinks and quirks

Communication is key. So get the down low from your partner before you get down. This is also your chance to share what you like (or dont) and any new ideas youve been kicking around.

Discuss what you want to try, or what you like the best. Want to try role-playing? Go for it! Talk about it with your partner, and don’t be shy about it. Talking about your fantasies will only bring you closer together and maybe even make some of those naughtier dreams come true.

This can also be really fun when in the throes of passion. If you haven’t tried it yet, talking about what you want your partner to do or what you would like to do to them can be extremely exciting in the heat of the moment. It’s also a pretty hot way for you to make sure you’re on the same page throughout the night.

3. Get the right gadgets

Valentines Day is the perfect excuse to get a little risqu.

So let’s put the phone down and use a whole different kind of electronic to get in the mood.

There are a plethora of toys, lotions, creams and other fun things to help you spice it up in the bedroom. You can use something as mundane as massage oils, or something a little bit more scandalous.

Lingerie and other wearables can really get you and your partner in the mood, too. Whether you’re a man or woman, feeling sexy and free is the key to making that time with your partner as special as it can be.

4. Setting the tone

Whether you’re using toys, oils and costumes or not, the importance of foreplay cannot be understated.

Because it can take a little longer for women to get to that incredible moment, it’s important that partners take the time to make sure they’re both getting there.

And that doesn’t have to happen right before you hop in bed. Send each other flirty texts throughout the day or think about the time you’ll get to spend together that night so you’re getting excited all day.

Prolonging the moment can lead to even more pleasure later on.

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5. Tuning in to each other

Music can absolutely set the perfect mood.

Want to play it slow and passionate? Put on some soul, jazz, R&B, or other romantic music.

If you want to get a bit rougher with it, throw on something upbeat and fast.

Trojan has even created some great playlists that can serve as your soundtrack while you get it on.

Depending on the musical preference of you and your partner, you can pick some tunes that truly make the moment more intense.

6. Get the right case for your hardware

Protection is essential for preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

That’s where Trojan Bareskin condoms come in. These condoms are so thin, that you can get closer than ever before. And that’s a pretty big deal.

Whatever you and your partner have planned for Valentine’s Day, make sure that you’re getting it done right, enjoying the moment, and spending time getting closer than ever.

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Read more: http://mashable.com/2017/02/02/getting-closer-to-your-partner/